Well, once we finally decided that we were indeed going to get married in Mexico we ran into a roadblock we hadn't planned on. As we happily announced our plans to our friends and family we heard over and over, "Why would you want to go to Mexico? Haven't you heard about all of the drug war problems there?" We watch the news and we'd heard about the problems in Mexico but we also did enough research to understand that where we wanted to go (the Riviera Maya) was a very safe place and we weren't concerned at all. In fact, I found a great letter that was going around the internet (I don't know who to give credit to - I apologize):
Now some folks will read this and say, "They own a hotel down there, of course they will tell people it's safe." And that's true, we do own a business, and we do want people to come here. But the people who come here aren't just guests. They are our family and our friends.people we would never place in danger. And of course we wouldn't stay in business long if our guests were the victims of crimes every time they came on vacation. Most importantly, we wouldn't live here ourselves if we thought it was dangerous.
The truth is that there is a drug war going on in Mexico. Drug lords are battling the police and each other for the lucrative shipping routes by which drugs are taken into the US and guns are smuggled back. It is dangerous and sad and has become a cause for great concern in Mexico. However this concern must be put in perspective. If you are questioning whether or not you should visit Mexico's beautiful Caribbean, look at the facts about what is happening here.
The "drug war" of Mexico is primarily about smuggling routes which lead into the US. It is in northern central Mexico where the US and Mexico share a common border that this crime wave is currently going on. There is also an increase in crime in some large Mexican cities where organized crime is active, i.e. Mexico City. However this criminal activity is NOT centered on the Caribbean side of Mexico.
The latest US State Department advisory warning tourists about crime specifically names those cities "near the US border," such as the towns of Tijuana, Nogales, Nuevo Laredo, Matamoros and most especially Ciudad Juarez as being possibly dangerous. These cities are thousands of miles from the beaches of Cancun and Playa Del Carmen. The ONLY reference in the State Department's travel advisory which mentions the Yucatan, Cancun, Playa Del Carmen or the Mayan Riviera is a reference to another State Department posting warning against drinking too much and driving mopeds.
The increase in drug related crimes and organized criminal activity is very far from the shores of the Caribbean. For example, Ciudad Juarez, which is an area of major concern for crime, is approximately 2200 miles from Cancun. This is roughly the same distance as from San Francisco to New York City. Would you refuse to vacation in northern California because of a crime wave in New York City? Hopefully not.
There is no major crime wave or drug war in Mexico's Mayan Riviera.
This is not to say that there is no crime in this part of Mexico. Cancun, being a major city, has had its problems with attacks on police officers and those involved in organized crime, much as many cities in the US have experienced in the past. But again it is important to realize that these incidents have NOT involved tourists or happened in the well-defined resort and hotel areas.
And of course any tourist zone anywhere in the world will have crime. Vacationers always will attract pickpockets, thieves and con men. And that is true of Mexico as well. However here in Playa we have a special Tourist Police force designed to help with exactly those types of crimes and to assist visitors. The tourist who uses common sense, avoids drugs, sticks to well-known tourist areas and doesn't behave foolishly (i.e. getting extremely drunk, flashing large amounts of cash, etc.) should be as safe in Playa Del Carmen as in their own home town.
We can't guarantee that you will not be the victim of a crime on vacation whether you are here in Playa Del Carmen or on the streets of Orlando. What we can say with certainty is that the drug war crimes which have frightened so many people are not a concern or an issue for tourists in the Yucatan. And we can guarantee that thousands upon thousands of visitors are still coming here each day to enjoy our white sand beaches and swim in our blue sea without incident. Join us.
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Sorry RWSmith, we believe your comments contain some of the commonly held misbeliefs about Mexico that seem to be spreading throughout the media and the internet.
First, the Federales are not the only "real authority" in Mexico. The Federal Police do not patrol or otherwise exert authority over municipalities like Playa del Carmen. We have never seen the Federal Police active in the area of Playa other than on federal highways.
Second, we disagree that the local police authorities are "worthless" or have been "bought off long ago." There are many layers of police authority in a city such as Playa. There are the Tourist Police who assist visitors and police the resort areas. There are the Transit Police who handle all traffic and parking related issues. There are the local municipal police who handle general issues and problems within the city. There are the state police, the special narcotics squads and probably a couple of other divisions we have forgotten about. Our interaction with the police while living in Mexico has always been favorable. They have been polite and have assisted us with problems both at the hotel and at our home. The centuries=old tradition of the mordida (bribe or tip) to the police still does exist in Mexico and it is difficult for foreigners to understand or accept. And indeed it appears that many police officers have been bribed by the drug cartels with regard to drug enforcement. However, these facts do not indicate that all police officers are worthless or without enforcement power.
Thus, your thought that the transfer of federales to border towns in Mexico will leave the Mayan Riviera without real police protection is simply incorrect, even if such transfer were taking place. And, it is not. The Mexican government has made clear that it is utilizing the military, not the federal police, to engage criminals in the border town area. Again, there is no lack of police protection or patrol in Playa del Carmen or the surrounding areas.
We also have to note that your suggestion that the bad economy will lead to less protection in the Mayan Riviera is simply wrong. The economy of the Mayan Riviera has not suffered as much as the rest of the world has. Tourism is booming. We know this specifically as our own hotel is currently breaking every occupancy record we've ever had. Moreover, Playa del Carmen continues to show signs of economic growth. There is construction, both commercial and residential, everywhere in the area.
Finally, we have to note that Quintana Roo, which contains the Mayan Riviera, has the highest per capita income in all of Mexico. In short, the tourist trade of this area earns Mexico and Mexicans more money than any other area in the country. Thus, if you're going to suppose that Mexico is pouring resources into any part of the country, doesn't it make sense that they will first and foremost protect their biggest asset?
We appreciate your thoughts on this, but as people who are actually living here in Mexico, we think that we are in a better position than most to see what effect the drug war is having on life here. And to all appearances, the answer is: the effect is minimal.
We believe there is crime in every city and especially when traveling there are certain precautions you should take to limit your chance of having a problem.
- Stay on main roads and highways
- Do not be loud or obnoxious and draw unnecessary attention to yourself
- Do not be flashy with money or expensive objects or jewelry
- Do not get drunk in public (and act like a stupid drunk LOL)
- Travel in groups - the bigger the better
- Do not ask "locals" (or anyone for that matter) about sex or drugs
This year they were discouraging our (U.S.) "Spring breakers" from traveling to Mexico right? I want you to read the tips I've listed above and ask yourself if you think our "Spring breakers" would do anything on that list? Of course they would! So in that case it would be a bad idea for them to be "out and about" in Mexico ... and in most any U.S. city too!
We are still planning on getting married in Mexico and we're very happy with our decision. We are taking all five kids and we would not be going if we felt we were putting them in a dangerous situation.
How do you feel about travel to Mexico? Are you planning to get married in Mexico? Have you had any friends/family "warn" you about going there due to the drug wars? How have you handled it with them? Please share your thoughts below in the comments section ... I'd love to hear from you on this. *SmiLes* Suzanne

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It seems like most of the drug war news has died down quite a bit. I wouldn’t be worried at all especially after reading this. Seems like you’ve put it all into perspective and that’s great. The kids will have so much fun. I think I read on here you were going to marry at Dreams Tulum and I’ve heard it’s just gorgeous. I’m so jealous – have fun. LOL
The reports of violence in Mexico have been greatly sensationalized by the US media and the rabid right wingers who take anything as an opportunity to bash Mexico and it’s citizens.
As I am writing this, I am sitting on the patio of my home in the suburbs of Monterrey, having driven down here from the border after a weeks work cycle in the US.
The roads are safe, day and night, if you use common sense. Between Nuevo Laredo and Monterrey for instance, there are no less than 5 military checkpoints and a multitude of roving PFP patrols.
As mentioned in the article, use common sense, show respect and you will receive it in return.
I’m not saying Mexico is a utopic haven by any means, but it is still a wonderful country to visit or in my case, live in.
@janet ~ yes, it does seem it’s died down … now all we hear about is the pig flu! geez! I’ve never been to DT but from the bridal reviews and pictures … I can’t wait!
@porter ~ yes, sensationalized just like any “news” they can get their hands on! Thanks for the update from someone who’s there.
Well, here is my two cents. I was in Cozumel and Playa del Carment the week swine flu hit the news. I saw a few armed military, but no drunks and had no problems what-so-ever. We had a fantastic time. It was after spring break so we didn’t see big crowds and our side excursions (eg. Chichen Itza and a cenote swim, snorkeling, etc.) were great. And, by the way, no one is our party got sick either. So much for Moctezuma.
I have been to the Mayan Riviera in 2009 and again in 2010 with my 3 small children. No one in our group had one bad experience. The resorts are beautiful and the employees treat you like gold. I have taken the collectivos (public transit) 8 times and was surrounded by other tourists. I met a woman from Chicago that was mugged outside Tulum after dark when she got off the collectivo and was walking alone back to her vacation house. This happens all of the time in the US. I will be going back next year as well. Beautiful weather and beaches.
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